In this post, i will try to explain the 38 best ways to use tongue, mouth, lips and fingers to give her multiple mind-blowing orgasms. I will also try to share my understanding about why some men have hard time satisfying women. I will also try to offer a few ways for a man to satisfy a girl when she craves for more pleasure, more orgasms. Most of the observations have the backing of science and some are purely based on my observations. And as always, this post is based on my first hand experiences and based on what I learned from those experiences. So I can vouch that this works with most women. But, do remember, that not all women are alike, so there may be exceptions. But one thing is sure, If you are passionate about your partner and enjoy giving pleasure to your partner before you take pleasure in equal measure, then these steps are for you and your partner will thank you for what you know.
Disclaimer: Images used for illustrative purpose only so that each step can be better understood. Content is NSFW & involves Nudity. All the Images are taken from the web-public domain.
Why I love her Orgasms:
I thoroughly enjoy giving orgasms as much as getting them. Every time she has multiple orgasms, its becomes a huge turn on for me. And I crave to feel, taste, see and hear and enjoy more orgasms from her. So every time she has climax, i try to give her more orgasms. And if i am lucky and if i could turn her on so good, i am able to give her orgasms back to back that i stop only when she sleeps in total bliss or get totally tired.
In my previous post "How to Give Her Mind blowing Multiple Orgasms, before Sex !!" I touched upon all the broad techniques you can mix and mash and use to give her multiple back to back orgasms. And in this post, i shall try to explain the art of cunnilingus - the art of licking, eating and sucking her pussy - as detailed as possible, because the oral pleasure is one of the technique that gives orgasm to most of the women.
According to psychology today, "Only 25 percent of women are consistently orgasmic during vaginal intercourse." and hence "Intercourse is not the key to most women's sexual satisfaction." (Read the report: The Most Important Sexual Statistic)
This is the reason why more and more Indian Husbands are getting entertained by Cuckold Sex leading to a trend of Cuckolding in India.
This also shows new trends of Sexuality in India. Especially the changing mindset about sexuality and sexual pleasure. With the arrival of mobile apps like Tinder, the Adult Dating and Relationships have evolved beyond recognition.
The most liberating thing about Modern Indian Women that happened in the last 10 years is that, with the rising trend of working women, Indian women (working women and housewife), look at Sex as a way of entertainment and as a source of pleasure. This newfound sexual freedom of women is not only common in major Indian cities like Bangalore, Karnataka, Mumbai, Maharashtra, Delhi but also Kolkata, West Bengal, India but in cities like Pune, Maharashtra, Kanpur, Ahmadabad, Chennai, Hyderabad, Kochi, Kerala and even in smaller tourist cities like Manali, Kullu (Himachal Pradesh) and Darjeeling.
Modern Indian Women know that her orgasms are super important. As important as that of male partners. This is why a recent report says "77% Indian women cheat due to boredom" (Extra marital affairs: 77% Indian women cheat due to boredom; 45% increase in same-sex encounters among married people) and here is another interesting study (Women Cheat Just as Much as Men—This May Explain Why)
With these worrying numbers in mind, what do you think a man should do. A man should 1. Keep his female partner happy by giving being satisfying her in bed through orgasms. 2. Being her emotional anchor. 3. Contrary to what an average male believes, a female's sexual satisfaction does not always come from intercourse. So a man should know other techniques to give her orgasms and look at intercourse as another technique of sexual pleasure. The point is a man should stop assuming that intercourse is the all important thing when it comes to female orgasms. Its a myth created by man only for a man who can get aroused and finish is a flash.
So what worked for me is I go down on women and spend a lot of time enjoying doing that. This has worked like magic. So lets not waste any more time and see how you should use your tongue, mouth, lips to give her back to back orgasms.
Background:
Before I explain how to give her oral pleasure, please Understand & always remember that sex is an act to be enjoyed. So i always take time to arouse her. Always remember that orgasm in women works in totally different ways when it is compared to that of a man.Refractionary period is either very less or absent in women: The refractory period occurs right after you reach your sexual climax. It refers to the time between an orgasm and when you feel ready to be sexually aroused again. So the recovery period is nonexistent for a woman. What does that mean. It means women if sufficiently aroused through different ways, can have orgasms back to back without no rest or recovery periods. Women can keep cuming, if the man can keep her aroused. While it is very long for men. This coupled with Premature Ejaculation tires a man while giving totally unsatisfied experience to women. That is the reason why many women, after having sex and the guy takes time to recover after ejaculation, resort to masterbation to have orgasms. This is very common in India with 1000s of young women.
Because of less or no refractionary period for women, most women have the capacity to have multiple orgasms. Multiple orgasms occur when a person climaxes more than once during a period of sexual activity.
So a man should know multiple ways to keep her wet, aroused and on the edge to satisfy her. While most men, sadly, believe there is only one way to give pleasure to women and that is intercourse. When there are many other exciting things that can be done to make her climax back to back.
This is my way of doing it. This is the way I have always used. For me, penetration is just one of the several ways to give her orgasms. So using several techniques definitely works. In most of the situations, if used effectively & with imagination, the girl will surely have at least 3 or 4 Pre-penetration orgasms and then she can have few more while penetration. The great thing about this way is that this will give her so many orgasms even before the act of penetration.
For me, being a man, orgasm of a girl or female orgasm is as important as my own orgasm if not more. Also it makes the girl so wild that she would return the pleasure in all the wild ways, without me asking for it. So I take penetration as just a technique to give a girl orgasm and I always use this outline that works for me every time.
Step 1: Start Arousing Her Mind & Foreplay with her
Always Start arousing her Mind. Build the thrill and anticipation and the excitement. The more thrilled she is, the easier it is to give her multiple orgasms. Below texts are to let your imagination go wild - "I can’t wait to kiss every inch of your body.", "Here I am going down to have a cup of coffee and now all i want is to go down on you", “I have got something planned for later, and i think you will like it”, “I dont like sitting in office, when i could be doing things with you”, “I had the wildest dream last night”, " Why can’t I just be lying beside you in bed instead of studying/working… 🙁", “if i were there with you, i would have….” (this works like magic)
Foreplay is very important:
Make out with her so good that she feels like a gorgeous princess. Being a man you have to communicate how much you CRAVE every inch of her body by your hungry actions. Body language should clearly communicate your craving for her. Never let her relax from this moment onwards. Be really really hungry for her and show it to her how much you crave.
Undress her with all the passion you have for her..
Take Your Own Sweet Time. Slow and steady wins the race. While undressing a woman slowly, you’re able to tease and take note. Keep in mind how much a woman puts into her looks – she wants you to see her and appreciate her. Take the time to kiss, feel, explore and figure out her sensitive zones while you’re stripping off her clothing. If you’ve really brought your A game with you, throw some teeth in the mix. Nibble on a bra strap and pull it off with your mouth if you are so bold. She’ll appreciate both your creativity and dedication to the hustle. The other way would be to rip her cloths off in passion. Both works equally well to arouse a woman. Based on my experience, same woman will love slow peeling off her cloths when romantic and will want you to rip her cloths off when she is really aroused.
Step 2: Make out with her…
Make out with her. Take time. Take it slow. Build the energy. Build the craving. Build the sexual tension. Use sounds, touches, squeezes, words till she disengages and tells you "Lets go to my car", "lets go to your room" or "Lets go to some place quiet"
Step 3: Relish Her Neck:
Start with her neck. Try to focus on her neck but never totally ignore the erogenous zones around her neck. Lick, nibble, bite gently and chew her ears, earlobes, dig the back of her ears, lick her neck right below her ears. Suck her earlobes. Hold her shoulder and feel her moving her hair and swaying her neck to expose her neck so that you can better lick, suck, nibble and bite her shoulder, ears, earlobes. Feel the scent of hair hair. Keep reminding her how beautiful she is and how much you missed her and make sure every sentence end with a bite to leave small teeth mark on her shoulder.
Step 4: Kiss to Suck Her Soul Out & Look into her eyes:
Make out with her & Kiss her passionately, Make her feel how much you crave for her. Lick her lips first. Then suck her tongue and lips and swallow her saliva as you suck her tongue. Keep alternating between her chin, her lips and her cheeks and when she least expects kiss her lips in full and suck her lips and bite and gently pull the lower lip. Some women get super aroused for that. Keep reminding her "I will never have enough of you, girl" and passionately move your lips and sucking between her lips, shoulder, chin and cheeks till she is fully aroused.
Step 5: Feel Her Arms & Melt Her:
Feel her arms, shoulder and gently hold her neck with your one arm. If she gets turned on with her man being dominant, you will feel that she is getting really turned on. That's why i always squeeze the cheeks with my one hand and release when i kiss her. If she kisses even more passionately, then i will have signs that she loves being submissive and i can safely be dominant.
Step 6: Find if she is Submissive (a sub):
As far as i know women who gets turned on by being submissive would get super aroused if she is called names. But never over do this. Slowly whisper into her ears socially taboo words like "oh how i missed you my sl*t" I know girls who orgasm when being called names. Keep introducing more socially taboo words and see if that turns her on. Go on playing with her.
Step 7: Enjoy Her Curves:
Feel & kiss her curves and her lower back and everywhere possible. Be passionate. If she is standing, go down on her kiss her waist and thighs and come up and kiss her mouth while grabbing her body and pulling her close to you in a jerk. If she is very thin and weightless, you can turn her over with one quick movement of arm (if you are strong enough) and when she is facing her back onto you, say louder "oh baby, now i let me enjoy every inch of your back" and start to relish her back inch by inch, centimeter by centimeter. By now she will be fully aroused and she will be so dripping.
Step 8: Enjoy Her Boobs & Relish her Fluffiness:
This is something i absolutely love doing, especially turn her over again and again - to her back and enjoy her back and then flip her over and enjoy her boobs. Suck her boobs & Lick around her nipples in circles and take her over the edge.
Be slow. Relish her every inch. Feel her breathing. Watch her arching back and falling back on the bed as your tongue explores her boobs and nipples. If her breathing is shallow and heavy, then it is a clear sign that you are doing the right thing on her boobs. Once you have the sign from her:Lick around her nipples in circles. Lick slowly, gently. Tease her with your tongue tip.
Flick with your tongue tip. Set fire inside her.
Bite the underside of her boobs which is mostly ignored. When you bite also lick the same spot to reduce her pricking pain.
Suck her nipples deep and make her moan.
Suck and gently pull her nipples and boobs towards your chest. This will give her a tint of pain but she might enjoy it so much.
Make sure you spend enough time to lick and suck and rub your cheeks on her boobs. Make her melt and surrender to the pleasure completely. Keep whispering “How i missed your boobs”. “How i wanted your boobs in my mouth whenever I see you wearing dress”. etc. These lines of passion will arouse her and if you are playing with her boobs with your mouth and tongue good enough, she might even have a few orgasms before your proceed to any other parts of body.
When you flick your tongue, tell her “How I want to flick my tongue like this between your pussy lips” That gives her a preview of what is going to come after this. This expectation usually makes women so wild and aroused that some women have orgasms.
Step 9: Fold Her Arms Above Her Head:
Now as you relish her nipples and boobs, slide her both arms up above her head and pin down with your left hand on the bed or on the wall if you both are standing. And lick her underarms. Tickle her underarms with tongue, lips and if you have a beard or stubble use it well to give her such an amazing feel and blinding arousal. If you did everything till now flawlessly, she would start begging you to make love to her. Now is the fun. Now you need to tell her "I wont let you have orgasm so easy baby. Let me enjoy you more. Because I am not done with you". If you are lucky, she may even have her orgasm at that point. Because now she is not able to move. She is at your mercy. She feels so aroused and dripping and you keep reminding her that you want to give her more pleasure and you want to edge her even more. I know for sure that some girls would even have a few orgasms here, because orgasm of a woman is strongly triggered by her mind and her wild imagination and the craving her man shows to her.
Step 10: Lift her up:
If you are standing and she is dripping, kiss her deep and when you free her mouth from your kiss, whisper "Now i will make you cum in the bed" and lift her up in your arms (if you are strong enough). But this lifting her up really turns her on even more. Because a girl's primitive instinct is to be the craving of a strong man and trust me this will turn on most of the women. If she is already in bed, whisper the same and drag her closer to you and subtly show how strong you are. These days most girls are thin and keep themselves lean so this is easier with younger leaner girls. Now walk to the bed with her in your arms and keep kissing her and drop on the bed. While walking tell her that "I can’t wait to play with your p**sy" and "how i want to taste of your p**sy." and "how my tongue craves for your sweet p**sy juices baby" and "Now i am going to eat your p**sy".
Step 11: Drop Her on the Bed:
Now drop her on the bed, and drag her to position and go down on her from her boobs slowly nibbling, licking and sucking all the way down to her p**sy. Feel her fall back and surrender to your tounge. If she keeps arching up to see what you are doing, press her down on the bed and keep going down.
Step 12: Focus on her stomach:
Start slowly. Use your tongue tip to draw on her belly. Inch by inch. Feel her ticklish sensations. Hear her laughter, Giggling. Her moans. Enjoy every bit. Use your tongue tip to circle around her navel. Curl your tongue and push it into her navel and out. Do it again and again. Keep circling your tongue around her navel. When she is squirming reach out to squeeze her boobs. Pinch her nipple. Use both hands and squish both her boobs while licking around her navel. If you do this very well, you will soon find her either begging you to stop and make love to her or pushing you away because of too much pleasure. Bite the sides of her stomach. Lick her lower stomach. Vacuum suck her stomach and make funny sounds to make her laugh. But as soon as she laughs keep licking around her navel and curl in and out of her navel.
Bonus move:
When she is surrendered and lying eyes shut in complete pleasure, suddenly go up and kiss her neck, boobs and suck her nipples and before she knows what happened, kiss her lips. When you are kissing her, make sure you rub your hard erection on her thighs, legs, on her pussy inside her panty. This will make her so much more aroused to feel your hardness. Then come down kissing, licking, biting and nibbling all the way down from her lips. Down to her chin, neck, collar bones, shoulder, boobs (squeezing and kissing), nipples (sucking and licking and flicking with tongue) to her stomach. When you feel her breathing becomes very heavy, slowly move down to her panties.
Step 13: Peel her Panty:
Start by kissing her panty. Bite the elastic band over panty. Lick the elastic all the way. Turn her over and lick and bite the elastic band over her back. Flip her over again and lick her pussy over the panty. This should make her even more wet and most probably you will find her moaning and dripping and oozing. Always remind her "You are the yummiest thing i have ever eaten", "I will never be done with you baby, because you are so hot", "Your scent, your skin, you moans, make me sooo wild". Bite the elastic band of her panty and pull it down. Inch by inch.
Now Remove her panty.
Be sensuous in doing it. Or be really wild with passion. You can either peel the panty off her with teethy or 2 fingers to tease her or you can just rip the panty off her. In my experience, both she will love.
Step 14: Kiss, lick, suck, nibble everything that gets visible:
As you pull down her panty, more of pussy and inner thigh become visible and now Eat, nibble, suck, lick everything that get visible around except her p**sy. Let her crave. Make her wish you would eat her pussy, but just don't let her have the pleasure so easy. Make her crave. So keep kissing, nibbling, licking and sucking her thighs, panties, legs, inner thighs, waist line, panty line, stomach. This should drive her crazy and crave for your tongue and mouth on her pussy so that she can cum again.
Step 15: Now Feel her & give her pleasure with your fingers:
As she squirms and wets her panty so good, feel her pussy with your fingers. Feel her wetness. Feel her oozing juices. Insert your fingers inside her panty and fell her pussy lips. Squishy, gluey, stickiness of her pussy. Take her juices and her sticky wetness on your finger, and paste it on her neck and nipples. Now suck her nipples. As you go down to suck her nipples you suck your own fingers and swallow her juices and give your finger to suck her and feel her suck your fingers so passionately and then suck her nipples pasted with her own gluey juices. Lift your face from her nipples after sucking for some time and whisper "oh baby, you are so dripping wet, now is the time i want to suck your pussy so good to swallow your wetness" & go down and keep your face right above her pussy and you must be in a lying position as well.
Step 16: Look up to see if she is enjoying:
Most probably you will see the amazing view of her boobs with nipples hard and erect and she is completely enjoying with eyes shut and moaning. While receiving, some folks will keep their eyes mostly closed and relax into the sensation. Others enjoy the visual of their partner between their legs. Nothing’s more intimate than making eye contact with a partner during oral play. Go ahead and look up at your partner from time to time.
Step 17: Describe her p**sy:
Whisper how you love her p**sy, How "i cant control thinking about the flutter your p**sy will make as my tongue touches". Keep telling her "Oh my god, how i crave for the taste of your oozing juices in my mouth" and moan loudly.
Step 18: Now touch her p**sy lips with your tongue:
Press her stomach and touch and feel her p**sy lips trembling and shivering. Start light and slowly increase the pressure and speed. Nonverbal cues are still cues. Tune into your partner’s breathing patterns, the way they tilt their hips toward or away from your lips, and what their hands are doing.
Step 19: Lift her thighs & keep them on your shoulder:
Go down directly with all the passion and lick around her wet pussy. Feel her pussy lips flutter at the first contact of your lips on her pussy lips. Take it as a cue to continue doing that. Lick around the pussy. Lick along the edges of the pussy. Gently bite. Nibble. Lick. Squeeze her pussy lips between your lips. Pull her pussy. As she falls back in complete pleasure, lift her thighs and place it on your shoulders. You can also prop a pillow under her hips to lift her up. Or, have them scoot their bum to the edge of the bed and kneel in front of them.
Hold her thighs pressed to your shoulder. And lick around her pussy. Inch by Inch. Tickle her as much as possible by mixing your lick with gentle bites, sucks and nibbles both on the pussy lips and on her inner thighs, lower waist, above her pussy below her navel, under her pussy but right between her pussy and anus. If you have difficulty in reaching this highly erogenous zone, lift her thighs a little and expose the area and lick. This will drive her really wild. And will be breathing really heavy. If you are lucky, she will have a few more orgasms because of the building excitement and strong arousal triggered by your wild passion for her.
Step 20: Make circles:
Use your tongue to make circle around her pussy lips. Start with big circles to have all her pussy inside. Then draw a smaller circle. And smaller ones. As you draw smaller circles with your tongue, your tongue tip will tickle and touch different sensitive layers of her pussy. As you draw smallest circle and your tongue ends the circle in the middle of her pussy....
Step 21: Curl your Tongue:
Curl your tongue upward and push it into her pussy. Open her pussy a little and go in & out. Slowly in the beginning. But gather pace. As you do this in & out movement of your curled tongue, she will drip and might even have another orgasm. Because it will give her really ticklish pleasure. Do all this with great passion and keep looking up how she is taking it. If she moans louder and shakes, then continue doing it till she cums.
Step 22: Make some noise:
Moaning against your partner’s body can create a hot, rumbly sensation that feels ah-mazing on her vulva. Slurping, suctioning, and spitting sounds are also good to go. All this will make her moan louder and get turned on really fast and edge her closer to multiple orgasms.
Step 23: Use fingers:
Whatever you do with mouth or tongue or lips, also use your fingers. Insert your fingers about two inches into their vagina and locate her G-spot which is you might be able to find on the roof of her vagina. Feel for it. And you will feel the difference in the texture of the skin. Or, use them to spread apart your lover’s labia to give your mouth more direct access to their ruby.
Step 24: Find her G-spot & Try to make her squirt:
Use your finger, insert about two inches into her vagina. Lift upward toward the roof of her vagina in a “come near” motion with pointing finger palm upward other fingers curled. You are trying to find a region rather than a spot. When you explore with one finger or two, you will eventually find slightly thicker & rougher skin or a bean shape and that may be the g-spot. Keep exploring with your come near motion till the sensation builds for her and she turns really wild and aroused and dripping and moaning. However, do remember that Many women are scared about peeing during G-spot stimulation because it triggers a similar sensation, like they have to urinate. So once she get scared that she might urinate on your face, encourage her not to be afraid. You should know that when they squirt, they will not urinate, but a clear water that gets squirted. So even if they get the sensation to urinate, you should know that they wont. At a point like this, i am so passionate and wildly aroused by her orgasms that I will whisper, "Baby, squirt, cum more times than you have ever squirted or cum in your life. Because I want you to fill my mouth, wet my face with your squirt and cum. Because I absolutely love it. So no shame. No getting scared. Cum for me baby. Squirt for me. Fill my mouth and let me swallow you". This usually makes her cum and squirt as I tickle her g-spot gently giving her few more orgasms. And I will happily suck her and swallow her juices. When she is exhausted, tell her, “I am not done with you. I want you more”….
Step 25: Move tongue in a snake pattern:
Move your tongue in snake pattern. This also can give her intense pleasure as your tongue moves from top to bottom and bottom to top in a way snake moves. As you do this move, make sure your tongue gently opens and flicks her pussy lips.
Step 26: Move tongue in zig zag:
Move tongue in a zig zag motion. Side to side motion is good because she will feel her pussy lips opening and closing as you do it. This will give her sweet intense sensations that only your tongue can give her.
Step 27: Flick tongue rapidly
By now her pussy lips will be dripping with her cum and your saliva and if you are really wild and like it dirty like me, then you are in for fun now. Always remember her insecurities, if you make her feel that her pleasure is absolutely important to you and you love her pussy even if its dripping and dirty and messy, that itself is a big turn on for her and the way you drop her mouth onto her dripping pussy will be enough for her cum so hard again. Keep flicking your tongue on her pussy lips delicately and rapidly. This should make her cum again.
Step 28: Move tongue along the edges vertically & Pull her p**sy gently:
Slowly hold her pussy lips between your lips and slide your lips upward and downward along the edges. So she can feel your shut lips slide with her pussy lips between. This may not be possible across the full length of the pussy because of the different shapes and sizes of the pussy lips. But for any pussy with pouting lips, you can use this and give her sweet sensations that will give her another orgasm.
This is another move that drives women wild. But you have to be careful while using this. Dont over do it. Dont over pull. Both can lead to pain and irritation for her. So when you are using any of the above technique to suck, lick, bite her pussy, gently hold a fold of her pussy lips between your lips and pull out gently. This gives her an intense feeling of pleasure. Also this may be hard for women with thin and small pussy lips. But with women with pouting pussy lips, this should make her blind in pleasure.
Step 29: Up and down:
Once she had a few orgasms, she will be tired. Trust me. Even though her refractionary periods are absent, every orgasm drains her energy and if you have done every step above with passion and romance and absolute craving for her and her taste, then she must have cum many times. Some girls can cum crazy number of time - well above 6 to 12 with pussy licking alone. But there are also girls who never comes too. But the women who does not get orgasm if tongue is used well on them are very rare.
So if she is tired by now with back to back multiple orgasms, then let her relax. But at this time I smile at her sweetly, kiss her mouth and whisper in her ears that "I am not done with you, i want to suck you and swallow your juices more. I will suck you till you have no more drop of juice left in you". Be dirty with her. She will absolutely love it. She might even end up telling this to her girl friends. Trust me. Because women are very open to their girl friends when it comes to intimate relationships they have.
Step 30: Standing:
The good thing about licking her when she is leaned on the wall or on the door is that she can see what you are doing and she can really adjust her position to have complete pleasure from your licking and sucking. She can also keep her one thigh on your shoulder and play with your head and grind her pussy on your lips or press your head onto her pussy so that she can cum straight into your mouth. If you are like me, then you will love her juices in your mouth so you can swallow it.
Step 31: Sitting:
Now make her sit on a comfortable chair and let her relax her back onto the chair so that she can sink deep into the pleasure your mouth is about to give. Open her thighs. Sink your face between them. And do what you have been doing, worship her with the passion and tenderness till she climaxes. Watch the images below"
Step 32: Let her face sit:
When she is fully recovered, you can make her sit on her knees and move over onto your face while you reach to tickle her pussy with your tongue. The sexiest thing about this position is that some girls can relax in this position. You will have amazing view of her boobs and her face and stomach while lying between her thigs. Now reach up flick your tongue on her pussy lips. Nibble the pussy lips. Gently pull. Reach out with your hand and squeeze her stomach, thighs and boobs. Pinch her nipple and keep sucking her pussy deep. You will feel when she is enjoying it or not. Guide her hand onto your head. Show her to play with your hair. She will enjoy this so much. Once you show what she needs to do, she is going to love this position. Soon she will press your head onto her pussy as she gets closer to her sweet body shaking orgasm and rub her pussy on your mouth and squeeze your face between her thigs. Make your licking and sucking faster as she squeezes your face, rubs her pussy on your face as she is very near her orgasm. Do the same thing while pressing her ass so that her body comes down onto your face and she leans forward so that her pussy is pressed on your mouth. Suck her deep and she will have a few more amazing orgasms.
Trust me, this till she will lose her control and squirt if you did with real passion and fill your mouth and wash your face with her squirt and her cum. Lap her squirt and cum and swallow every drop her pussy oozes out hungrily and dry her pussy with your tongue.
Step 33: Go Doggy:
And As she cums and have a few full body multiple orgasms, she might fall onto the bed now move away from her. Lift her waist up before she recovers. Make her stand on all 4s - on her hands and knees on the bed or on the carpet. Squeeze her ass and lean on her and whisper in her ears "I am going to give you another orgasm now because My mouth craves for your pussy". Hold her thighs and press your face on her pussy which in that position will be right under her anus. Feel her pussy lips with your fingers.
Open Her inner layers as she stands in Doggy. Now as she is in the bliss her back to back orgasms (& possible squirting), Open the lips & suck the red inner layers. Tell her how the color of her p**sy is changing as you suck, eat lick and nibble. Tell her "oh baby, i love this red color of your pussy lips" and passionately press your mouth and deep suck her till she falls on her chest with her ass in air in complete surrender again.
Step 34: Tongue Scoop:
Scoop your tongue. Take the watery slippery juices that must have started oozing out of her pussy with your scooped tongue & keep her juices in your mouth. Now lean on her and go near face and turn her face to you and kiss her mouth. Now suck her tongue so good. Now she will taste her own juices from your mouth. Suck and swallow her juices from her mouth and let her swallow her juices from your mouth mixed with your saliva. You may find it dirty. But dirtier the sexier. And some girls really get turned on for this.
Step 35: Use pulsating sucks:
Now slide down her back kissing and biting all the way. If possible leave hickies all over her back with vacuum sucking on her skin. Whisper as you leave hickies on her back, these hickies will remind you that "I own you. I own your juices. You are mine."
Now press your mouth in the middle of her pussy and suck deep. But this time suck with pulsations - in and out. Keep pulsating your mouth till she cums and her cream oozes out...
You should suck to suck her soul out of her pussy. You should be so passionate doing this that you leave no chance to her but to cum into your mouth multiple times as in the images below. Look how passionate they are sucking girls. Your only objective to make her cum as many times as possible before you lift your head off from her dripping, multiple orgasmed pussy. She should be drained off her juices by the time you finish your sucking and she would beg to leave her alone but then you will say “i have just started giving your pleasure, baby..i want your pussy more”…. Make sure you swallow her juices every time you cum and lick dry her pussy well as your tounge makes her ready for another orgasm…
Step 36: Slurp her:
As she cums, Use your tongue to massage the inner pussy layers vertically, horizontally. Press, slip, slide your tongue over her inner pussy lips and then Slurp her. When you slurp, imagine you are slurping an ice-cream popsicle or cone. Start from the bottom and slurp up all the way vertically. Feel your tongue collecting her oozing juices as you slide up your tongue all the way to her clitoris. And if you have done this she might be shivering in another orgasm and as she cums, flip her over onto the bed with her pussy exposed....
Step 37: Suck, flick, tickle her clitoris:
As she lands on the bed with she facing you, go down and suck her pussy again. But this time use your finger and reveal her clit. You can try sucking on her clitoris — gently — as the nerves extend a few inches into her body. Suck it in slightly and then flick the underside with your tongue. Tickle, flick and suck at her clitoris. If she feels it good and does not complain about sensitiveness, suck deep.
Try to get into a rhythm. The rhythm might take a minute to establish, but if you are good at it, the payoff is tremendous for her. When you can feel her clit inside your mouth, press your tongue on it and circle your tongue around it and flick the clit with your tongue as gently and as rapidly as possible. If she is not very sensitive about her clit, then trust me she will cum then and there. Because clitoris stimulation is what many women need to have intense orgasms. Flicking your tongue side-to-side across the clit, or swirling it around the hood are both great ways to make her come. Just remember to keep the pace, pressure, and technique even and consistent, unless she tells you differently.
Step 38: Pull Her pussy lips and Clitoris:
By now if she is any ounce of energy left in her with back to back climaxes, you need to start nibbling her p**sy and gently pull the p**ssy lips gently outward. She should feel it being pulled out and then squeeze it between your lips. See her reactions. At this point, her pu**ssy might become less sensitive with back to back orgasm and constant rubbing of your tongue and fingers. But you can still try it. In my experience, I have seen girls squirting while I did this skin-pulling. But some girls just go numb to this experience because of their previous climaxes. But you, as a lover, should always be passionate to give her few more org**sms. Thats why i always try to drain & swallow even the last drop of juice left in my partner. Watch the images below
Few Best Practices:
Suck her through her orgasms: Based on my experience, if she is really turned on, she will ooze and cum now as you pull her pussy lips gently. When she shivers and shakes and moans and cums, dont take your mouth away from her pussy lips. Now is the real fun. She will try to push you away, but force her hand and legs and keep sucking her full mouth. This is very important if you want to prolong her orgasms and give her multiple back to back orgasms. From one orgasm to 2 and 3 if you overpower her gently and keep sucking her with your full mouth. When you are doing this, her pussy should be in your mouth entirely. Suck deep on her lips. Flick the tongue inside her pussy lips. Feel her entire body shivering and feel her pussy trembling as you suck. This is one of the sexiest feeling to have.
At this point the pleasure is so much for her that she might even squirt. If she looses her control and if she cums then she might even squirt and fill your mouth with her juices and her squirt. But this is the fun of it all. Swallow and enjoy the taste of your girl. That's what I do. And I really enjoy it. This sometimes makes the girls really ashamed that she squirted. But don't make fun of it. Encourage her to squirt more and assure her that with you she can be a really wild sexy hyperactive girl who enjoys real pleasure.
Trust me, this might look so small for a man, but these are the smallest details that will make her satisfied. Because girls have the greatest insecurities about her private parts. They think how a guy will think? Will he like it? My private part is not as clean as the porn stars? Am i able to squirt? Should I Squirt? Will i be socially shamed as sl*t if i enjoy sex? Your craving, passion for her juices and orgasm and your reassurances will make her be completely satisfied with you. Your encouragement to enjoy sex will shatter all her social conditioning & taboos the society has forced upon her. And she will love you for that and She might really start to look forward to these secret private moments with you when she can enjoy her true self - her wild erotic side and her fantasies.
Tie her up or Blindfold her:
As you reassure her and urge her to keep climaxing, use her bra or panty or the bed sheet or towel to tie her hand on the bed post. The bliss of her last orgasms must not faded entirely and thats when you are tying her up, exposing her and making her vulnerable infront of you. At this point tell her "How i wanted to make you vulnerable like this. Now you cant move. You can only squirm and keep cuming into my mouth. I am not done baby. Because i crave for you, your body and your orgasm so much that i want to see, feel and taste your orgasms more. So keep cuming. That is your only option till I am fully satisfied with you". At this point, she will feel totally vulnerable, but at the same time her last orgasms would make her hungry and wild for more orgasms and her vulnerability and your craving for her will bring her to more wild orgasms.
Use words to arouse her:
Your passionate whispers will arouse her so much that she must be wondering oh my god, this guy is totally crazy about me. Am i so desirable. That feeling of being intensely desirable and for being the reason for a man's wild arousal will make her aroused and few deep sucks, she will moan, arch her body and fill your mouth again with her juices and have a few more beautiful orgasms.
Keep urging her to ooze & climax more:
Keep whispering how you like her p**sy when she climaxes. So all you want is to give her more orgasms. By now she will be dripping and her p**sy will be oozing and really slippery wet with multiple orgasms and all the oozing of juices.
Suck & Swallow Her Juices:
This is one of the best ways to reassure her that you are absolutely crazy about her. And trust me this will turn on and work as ultimate reassurances for her to surrender to the intense pleasure you are giving and trust me once she surrenders to the pleasure, she will cum back to back and multiple times. Remember that every woman tastes different. The taste of cum is an acquired taste. If you are really passionate about sucking her pussy, you will not notice how she tastes. Just go with the flow. Suck, swallow and make her cum. Making her cum & squirt into your mouth as many times as possible should be your first priority. When she cums completely like that and gets full body orgasms, trust me most women get so wild that as a man, you will not be needed to guide her to perform what gives you maximum pleasure. They will take the initiative and suck and swallow sperm willingly. With the right kind of encouragement and reassurance your will be able to help her master the art of giving oral pleasure to you and swallow your juices. I know women who hated doing it but now are crazy addicts of swallowing sperm. So take the initiative and swallow her and she will quickly learn.
Mix & Match: If you focus on it too much, you’re likely to make your partner oversensitive — and possibly annoyed. Vary the pressure, pacing, and technique until your partner is close to keep the sensation pleasurable, not pesky.
When you are licking her pussy, play with her boobs or finger her. When you are fingering her pussy, kiss her lips or suck her neck. When you are doing more than one thing to give her pleasure, based on my experience, she will have intense pleasure and she will cum multiple times.
If you can do more than 2 things - finger her with one hand, squeeze her boobs with the other hand and suck her neck or shoulder. If you manage to do that, she will be absolutely crazy about you. So aim for this and your girl will be eternally thank you for the pleasure you are able to give her.
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Watch for her reactions:
Do watch for her reactions and move accordingly. If she gets really turned on by moaning, wriggling, squirming, calling your name, then you need to continue doing this at different paces (slow, steady, rapid, rhythmic etc), different pressures and different styles - sweeping licks, flicks, stop & moving, slurps, sucks, licks, nibbles, bites, curl-in & outs, fingerings etc.
Always maintain hygiene & try to create an atmosphere of romance & passion:
Wash hands, fingers and private parts before you start. I usually take shower with her and take her to bed right after a clean shower pampering her with oils and a little bit of touching, fingering and licking during the shower itself. Then wrap her in a turkey towel and take her to bed. On the bed, i unwrap her and start kissing, licking, nibbling, sucking either from the her head or her feet.
Use toys & fingers & props to spice things up:
Tongues get tired, as do backs and necks, and sometimes you really want your partner to get off but you're lagging for some reason. Bringing a sex toy or two into the bedroom can be fun and also extremely helpful in making her get off. When you've got a rhythm down on her clitoris with your mouth, slipping a few fingers or a toy inside of her is a great way to cause explosive, mind-blowing orgasms. You can use ice cubes to make her cum as well.
Lick & Suck Her under shower or in swimming pool or when she is fresh after a good perfumed shower:
Women taste and her aroma is different at different times. But if you are not comfortable with her scent, then take her to shower, eat her when shower is running and she is getting washed under the shower. Or you can clean her wrap her in a towel take her to bed and suck her pussy. Eating a fresh pussy is a so good. And trust me she will be as fresh as it gets.
Finish with intercourse:
A women desires to have multiple orgasms but she feels complete only with intercourse and penetration. Orgasm from penetrative sex is difficult for many women, but studies indicate that orgasms that occur during penetration are much more powerful and satisfying.
I am not suggesting that this approach is quick or will work on all females on all situations. But if you can apply it tweaking it contextually, this can work wonders. Trust me, by mastering these and if you are lucky enough, a girl might even cum a few times and she will arrive with a wet panty and flushed and blushed look for the date.
Since arousal in women lasts really long, and orgasm for her is mostly about her mind, making her climax more times during the date or after the date will be not be that difficult.
PS: It makes me so happy that so many guys & girls found this post informative and arousing. I know for certain that this would serve as a nice, gentle hot reminder about the importance of giving orgasms to your girl and you don’t have to be a Don Juan to edge, arouse, climax and even squirt a girl. All you need is your fingers and your tongue. And in due course of the session she will tell you when she wants to you to make love to her.
But i wonder what women think about this post? Please comment or DM me
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How to Give Her Multiple Mind-blowing Orgasms before Sex? This post started my journey of helping Singles (Female & Male) and Couples in overcoming issues & frustrations in their sex life that sadly they could not discuss with anyone. I feel blessed and I am very glad that my suggestions, saved the love/sex life of many, for others, I could show them few ways to progress in the right direction. So if you have Questions? Suggestions? Comments? Needs? Message me on Telegram - skupm or Snapchat - skupm or Google Hangout: jayalpha2020 or Email: Google jayalpha2020@gmail.com
Looking forward to reading your responses, needs and your questions. And I will definitely answer all of your questions, suggestions and comments and needs with whatever I know that experiences have taught me. Thank you for reading this far.
If your husband or partner do not give you orgasms, here are few other articles that you might find interesting to read together and try out. I have written them based on my experience only. The posts outline most of the techniques with images and step-by-step instructions.
About me:
Myself Srikanth. I am not a doctor. I am not a psychiatrist. I am not a counselor either. But i have been observing, learning and experimenting with female orgasm with my imagination and passion over the years because Female orgasm is one of my greatest turn on. Giving cunnilingus orgasm, those thigh shivering, body shivering, squirting, blinding multiple female orgasms, is one of my greatest fetishes. I am a Information/Data architect from the beautiful and mystical India. Female orgasm fascinates me, thrills me and cunnilingus and female orgasms makes me wild. I am not trained in female psychology or physiology. So i do not claim my approach is scientific or reproduceable for all for all circumstances. But i have given few shivering, shaking orgasms with my tongue, with my tool and even with words. So i know a little bit of what makes a woman have multiple orgasms.
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